Look Away
I’ve written many times in the past about the pleasure I take in eye contact while playing (for example here). It’s a way to communicate both intimacy and vulnerability. A sense of acknowledging the...
View ArticleFixed Comments (again, again)
Multiple readers have reported problems in leaving comments on posts. I have now fixed that issue, and all comments should go through OK. Many apologies for any frustration caused and please email me...
View ArticleRelief
This week has been the political equivalent of a very extended edging scene. Four days of national blue balls, with the ballot counts offering a lot of tease and denial. Fortunately it ended with...
View ArticleShe’s Got the Look
If you asked 100 random people to describe the the look of a domme or dominatrix, what do you think they’d say? I’d guess a lot of their descriptions would mention accessories like leather, boots,...
View ArticleBigger isn’t Better
As a fan of CBT I thought I knew most of the crazy things men can do, or have done, to their C’s and B’s. Turns out I was wrong. This ProPublica article is a an eye opening and wince inducing look at...
View ArticleBondage Fun with Mistress Miranda
My UK trip has come to an end. I’m now in NYC for a few days. I only got to session once while in UK, but it was at least a very memorable one. Mistress Miranda is someone I’ve wanted to play with for...
View ArticleTeaching an Old Pony New Tricks
This striking image is unusual in a few different ways. Heavy bondage, forniphilia, objectification, breathplay and electroplay aren’t uncommon on their own, but I’m not sure I’ve ever seen them...
View ArticleBridge Variation
I’m not sure if this’d be a good or bad pose for my wonky lower back, but I’d be willing to give it a shot. My yoga teacher has done a lot of bridge variations with me, but sadly none have featured...
View ArticleShock the Cock
It’s becoming increasingly difficult to distinguish between hardcore kinky shenanigans and new age health treatments. Cross over examples in the past have been vaginal steaming, coffee enemas and...
View ArticleVanishing Vice
Vice Media is killing a lot of jobs and its primary web site. You can read about some of the business shenanigans behind all that here. It’s bankrupt and shifting to publishing purely via other sites....
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